Harish Iyer

“I have a bad line up of affairs. I broke up with them all.”

Sexolve 247: Can I Hope to Find Love After So Many Failed Affairs?

Sexolve 246: ‘Will She Get Pregnant Because of Anal Sex?’

If you have any queries regarding sex, sexuality, or your relationship, and need some advice, answers, or just someone to hear you out – write to Harish Iyer

Sexolve 245: ‘My Girlfriend Dresses Like a Man.’

To be authentic in a world of copy-cats is commendable.

Sexolve 244: ‘I’m In Love With A Man As Old As My Dad’

I suggest that see a relationship counsellor and understand that engaging in damaging behaviour is self-defeating.

Sexolve 243: ‘My 13-Year-Old Son Loves Dressing Up Like a Woman’

“Gender, sexuality and gender expression are all as real and actual and natural as heteronomative constructs are.”

Sexolve 242: My Boyfriend Sexually Assaulted My Friend

“I am also a survivor of sexual assault and understand the vulnerabilities that any survivor could go through.” 

“She treats me like tissue paper – only to be used for clean-ups.”

Sexolve 241: ‘My Girlfriend Exploits Me’

Sexolve 239: ‘My Girlfriends Are Stalkers’

Thank You, Dr Watsa: You Rescued Me From a Life of Shame

I love the feeling when I am on top of a man and his fully erect penis is inside my vagina.

Sexolve 240: ‘My Boyfriend Loses His Erection When I’m On Top’

Sexolve 238: ‘I Am Single. Does That Make Me Abnormal?’

Sexolve 237: ‘My Husband Has a Boyfriend’

“I have a bad line up of affairs. I broke up with them all.”

Sexolve 247: Can I Hope to Find Love After So Many Failed Affairs?

Sexolve 246: ‘Will She Get Pregnant Because of Anal Sex?’

If you have any queries regarding sex, sexuality, or your relationship, and need some advice, answers, or just someone to hear you out – write to Harish Iyer

Sexolve 245: ‘My Girlfriend Dresses Like a Man.’

To be authentic in a world of copy-cats is commendable.
I suggest that see a relationship counsellor and understand that engaging in damaging behaviour is self-defeating.

Sexolve 244: ‘I’m In Love With A Man As Old As My Dad’

Sexolve 243: ‘My 13-Year-Old Son Loves Dressing Up Like a Woman’

“Gender, sexuality and gender expression are all as real and actual and natural as heteronomative constructs are.”

Sexolve 242: My Boyfriend Sexually Assaulted My Friend

“I am also a survivor of sexual assault and understand the vulnerabilities that any survivor could go through.” 
“She treats me like tissue paper – only to be used for clean-ups.”

Sexolve 241: ‘My Girlfriend Exploits Me’

Sexolve 240: ‘My Boyfriend Loses His Erection When I’m On Top’

I love the feeling when I am on top of a man and his fully erect penis is inside my vagina.

Sexolve 239: ‘My Girlfriends Are Stalkers’

“They have scanned through my Instagram and every time I post something, they quiz me about it.”
Sexolve columnist Harish Iyer pays tribute to Dr Mahinder Watsa.

Thank You, Dr Watsa: You Rescued Me From a Life of Shame

Sexolve 238: ‘I Am Single. Does That Make Me Abnormal?’

“Why is everyone obsessed with being in relationships?”

Sexolve 237: ‘My Husband Has a Boyfriend’

“You deserve to show empathy and patience towards yourself.”